Wednesday, May 24, 2006

Over The Years

For over ten years, I have worked with an older man as part of my crew. He is very fond of children and soon after getting to know each other pretty well, he "adopted" the kids as foster grandkids. "PaPa" Johnny has done this with other children of co-employees, but he came in this morning to say he and his wife would be unable to attend any of Savanna's graduation doings. He sat down in my office side chair and shared a cup of coffee before work time ( we both have a habit of arriving 15-30 minutes early) and said to tell Savanna that it doesn't seem that long ago that she helped him operate the backhoe ( she was 7 or 8 at the time) and that she fell asleep on his shoulder coming back from Lake Guntersville with Graham and I when he came to get us and our boat when my truck was stolen from the boat ramp parking lot ( fortunately the dastardly thieves left the trailer, a story for another time) . He has saved pictures of her from the ballet recital when the paper ran a community news item and has always tryed to keep up with all the goings on with all the kids.

When he left out to start the work day, the upcoming graduation and all the preparations came to mind. Actually, we have been preparing for 18 years, with lullabys, bed time stories, 4K, kindergarten, and 12 grades. In spite of my shortcomings as a parent, Savanna has been blessed to learn and mature to this point. Her mother has spent much effort both academically and home training and she is to be highly commended. Savanna is ready to make the next step later this year to Auburn, but tomorrow evening she steps out to recieve her high school diploma and for that, she is to be congratulated.

We look forward to receiving family and friends after the ceremonies to help Savanna celebrate.

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

Culminations

Culminate: to reach its highest point; reach a climax; result (in). May is a month for culminations. Instrument and dance lessons culminating in recitals, choral groups in concerts, sports teams in playoffs, club activities in awards banquets, and school lessons in finals, projects and sometimes graduations.
I usually see May as a time of stress, but I think I should change my attitude and try to look on it as a season of culmination. This year, we've reached the highest point of high school with our first daughter. We never achieved that magical, effortless sailing through lessons and life that I imagined we would when we began to school at home, and there are so many things I wanted to accomplish that we didn't. ( I think a lady wrote a book about this maternal feeling called something like "Just One More Thing Before You Go...") However, we did learn lots about our academic subjects, extracurricular activities, people, ourselves and life. As this season of life comes to a culmination, I hope that it results in a desire to live life according to His will, in spite of the lack of smooth sailing, and that rough waters can be looked at as a necessary discipline.
We all look forward to our friends and family joining us in a celebration of this culmination! There will be a reception at our home after TypeA's graduation. ( Lots of "shuns" in those sentences. ) Love to you all!