Crescent Moon 2
Since publishing the previous post, I've been comparing in my mind the group of young people that was in attendance with the group that went to New Mexico. Bear with me, please.
In the mid-70's, right after the Viet Nam pullout & the '72 elections, things in our country were kind of crazy. As teenagers, we were watching America go through a liberalization process that affected an entire generation. Our group was average people that had watched much of this take shape and as such, we were very much normal kids of the time. Even the PB church was going through the phase of not encouraging the young people's interest so much, and not as much parental or pastoral care shown to keep the interest in the church. It was the late stages of "...if GOD wants the children in the church, He will put them there..." . Now this was not every where, nor was it stated right out, but it happens that we almost lost an entire generation.
Since then, pastors have been encouraging their flock to be bold about their kids. Parents have taken heart and have become more attentive to fellowshipping with others of like mind and creating and encouraging oppurtunities to fellowship. The young people themselves have encouraged each other to "...remain in the fold..." so to speak.
Our group in NM was an age group of around 16, give or take a year or two, and nearly all went to the same high school and were within one or two grades of each other and most of them from not very churchy families. The group downstairs ranged from 12 or so to nearly 20, middle school to college students, from Memphis, North Mississippi, B'ham and everyone seemed genuinely to enjoy the company of each other. All of them are regular church attendees and most, if not all, members of a congregation.
The NM group did the usual suspect things that mid-teens are usually suspected off...sneak out after curfew, try to sneak a smoke or beer, try to flirt with the pretty waitresses, etc...In being around most of the PB kids we know, while they like to stay up too late and talk too loud, the other issues haven't been observed. It may have happened but the general character weaknesses for that type of activity is not as prevalent seems like.
Parent involvement has to have been a factor. Most of the young people our kids are around, their parents are very much a part of the everyday lives, not just homeshooling, but genuinely involved. Most of the parents have chosen the mother to work at home ( a biblical pattern) and the father is regularly around. Their are very few single parent or remarried families but this doesn't have to be an excuse.
All of this just implies that we have been blessed by GOD to befriend and be introduced to families that love their kids, have encouraged them to know their Lord and Savior Jesus Christ as a friend and to let Him reign in their heart. There are other families we know, trying to go in the same direction with varying degrees of success. Encouraging as this is, we must continue to battle complacency; continue praying for wisdom as parents and for our country and those in authority over us, for our churches and those ministering servants that attend to the flocks;
4 Comments:
Amen, Dad! We truly have been blessed to be introduced to some of the best families. We are also priviledged to be in their company quite often, a great joy to myself.
Wow! Great Post Big P! Please share more insights and memories of your younger days when you get the chance.
Pearls of wisdom. I just wanted to tell you how much your post meant to me. Although I have thought on the subject before, I admit that I tend to fall into complacency, taking my family, friends, stuffed animals, etc. for granted.
I also liked what you said about how "we must continue to battle complacency..."
Well put.
Reading this late, but with a heartswell of agreement, and thankful that we count your dear family among our blessings in the very subject you are addressing!
Love to the P's all!
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